How have your relationships with loved ones changed because of cancer?
A cancer diagnosis often acts as a catalyst, shifting the dynamics of our most important relationships in ways we never expected. For some, it creates a "support gap" that feels isolating, while for others, it reveals a depth of love and strength that wasn't there before.
- Who has surprised you by showing up in a way you didn't anticipate?
- How have your daily interactions changed? Are you finding yourself in a "caregiver" role for others’ emotions, or has the diagnosis allowed you to finally ask for the help you need?
- Have you experienced relationships that drifted or became strained? How are you protecting your peace when a connection no longer feels supportive?
- Have you found that this journey has actually brought you closer to certain people or even introduced you to new, meaningful relationships?
Fortunately we have several social groups as well as others outside those groups, 3 grown kids and 7 grand children, all of whom comprise a really solid support network. I am 77 and have stage IV prostate cancer and am on my second recurrence over 14 years. Right now I have nothing detectable because I am on ADT for two years. All is good other than some unpleasant side effects due to surgery, two different batches of radiation comprising 50 days, and a lot on ADT.
I'm glad you have a large social network. I've been reading recently how that can lead to a longer, healthier life! Since you mention that you have prostate cancer, have you visited our sister community for those living with prostate cancer? You may find some interesting information and ideas there, as well as here. All the best, Kathy (Team member)
sad and lonely
Living with cancer is an emotional journey as well as a physical one. I am so sorry you are feeling sad and lonely. If you haven't already, please consider reaching out to a therapist, religious leader, or the social worker connected to your doctor's office or hospital. You deserve support during this time, and taking care of your mental health is an important part of your healing. Warmly, Kathy (Team member) oops - I guess I was in the wrong forum!
Things seem to b falling apart 4 me. Getting worse everyday. So relieved to of found a group who totally understands. Ty all 4 allowing me to join. ❤️
We are glad you are here! It sounds like you are really going through it right now. Can you tell me more...is it your symptoms or side effects that are getting worse? Or are you in need of extra support? Please stay in touch! Warmly, Kathy (Team member)
Hello All🤍I was recently diagnosed with Stage IV Metastatic Poorly Differentiated Neuroendocrine Carcinoma. I just had surgery last week on my lymph node in my groin where the malignant tumor was found. Chemotherapy is the next step in my treatment plan. I have Jesus 1st and Foremost in my Life✝️🤍I am also So Blessed to have my Beautiful Daughter and her Fiancé, and my Best Friend since 3rd grade as my support system. Yes, a Cancer Diagnosis changes your life in ways you can’t even imagine, but Never let it kill your Spirit🤍Be Blessed. All Love🤍
Thank you for sharing your experience. You have an amazing spirit. Yes, cancer changes us in ways we cannot imagine. And it certainly helps us differentiate between what is truly important and what isn't. Warmly, Kathy (Team member) Most Definitely Beautiful Lady, So True. I am So Grateful and So Thankful for My Journey…Every Step of It. Be Blessed. All Love.
